Prevent Bullying

A TIPS FROM ALIFIA (AFFLATUZZ)

Peoples who do bullying usually aren`t feeling okay with themselves. Remember that if someone`s gonna bring you down, it means that you are above them. So if they believed to themselves, they may not bullying others.
And you know that there are things to do and way better. It wouldn`t hurt other, but it has benefits and useful for yourself. These are what you can do to prevent bullying :

1. Find Your Talent

Find your talent is the first way to do. Because, when you found it you`ll have something to be enjoy. You can also being more popular and get more point at school.

Like...

1. Music

If you have a big passion at music, you can learn to be proffesional. Or just for fun. Spend your time by going to the music studio with your friends or your own. Upload your videos to youtube and perform in every occasion you get. Have a chance to be popularrr! It`s better than bullying, righto`?

2. Cooking

Do you feel happy to see your mom in the kitchen, do you feel great at making food? Learn and make it! Cooking can open your door to bussiness.

3. Fashion? Journalistic? BLOGGING! Everything!

Do do do and do! Explore your talent.

4. Your Body is Also Important

Make yourself beautiful. Use facial mask, scrub and anything makes your look`s better. And gym routinly!

5. Humble

Feel that there are great peoples out there. Learn to be like them, you can! Humble, but remember, not low self-esteem.

Thanks for reading. Hope this post is helpful for prevent bullying :)
Alifia xoxo

"Bullying is unbeneficial, bullying is ungreat and done by coward or shy people..."

Stand Up!

“Why aren't you in school? I see you every day wandering around."
"Oh, they don't miss me," she said. "I'm antisocial, they say. I don't mix. It's so strange. I'm very social indeed. It all depends on what you mean by social, doesn't it? Social to me means talking to you about things like this." She rattled some chestnuts that had fallen off the tree in the front yard. "Or talking about how strange the world is. Being with people is nice. But I don't think it's social to get a bunch of people together and then not let them talk, do you? An hour of TV class, an hour of basketball or baseball or running, another hour of transcription history or painting pictures, and more sports, but do you know, we never ask questions, or at least most don't; they just run the answers at you, bing, bing, bing, and us sitting there for four more hours of film-teacher. That's not social to me at all. It's a lot of funnels and lot of water poured down the spout and out the bottom, and them telling us it's wine when it's not. They run us so ragged by the end of the day we can't do anything but go to bed or head for a Fun Park to bully people around, break windowpanes in the Window Smasher place or wreck cars in the Car Wrecker place with the big steel ball. Or go out in the cars and race on the streets, trying to see how close you can get to lampposts, playing 'chicken' and 'knock hubcaps.' I guess I'm everything they say I am, all right. I haven't any friends. That's supposed to prove I'm abnormal. But everyone I know is either shouting or dancing around like wild or beating up one another. Do you notice how people hurt each other nowadays?” 

- Ray Bradbury

"I would rather be a little nobody, then to be a evil somebody" 
- Abraham Lincoln

Apa Sih, Cyberbullying Itu?

Halo pembaca ABHNTH! Tahu nggak? Selama sesiangan ini, aku sengaja stalking teman-teman facebook yang sering aku lihat membuat status yang termasuk tindakan bullying. Memangnya, apa sih yang disebut cyberbullying itu?

Cyberbullying berbeda dengan bullying fisik maupun verbal, karena dilakukan secara online. Cyberbullying sangat berbahaya karena pelaku bisa menjadi anonim supaya tidak diketahui nama asli pelaku. Selain itu, korban tidak bisa langsung melawan kepada pelaku. Akibatnya, korban akan malas membuka sosial media karena yang ada pastilah hinaan dari pelaku bullying.

Sayangnya, diantara korban cyberbullying, lebih sedikit diantara mereka yang berani melapor ke orangtua atau orang dewasa lainnya yang dianggap bisa menangani. Menurut sebuah riset, hanya 1 dari 10 korban bullying yang berani melapor kepada orangtua. Selain itu, depresi yang mereka alami akan lebih tinggi dari bullying verbal dan fisik. 

Yang termasuk cyberbullying adalah menghina seseorang lewat media sosial. Bisa dengan sindiran menggunakan status, bahkan bisa juga dengan status atau message yang ditujukan kepada korban. Atau yang lebih bahaya, mengambil foto pribadi korban tanpa izin dan mempostingnya sehingga mempermalukan korban. 

Facebook adalah media terbanyak untuk melakukan bullying selain twitter, instagram, path dan banyak lagi. Pelaku juga suka menggunakan Ask.fm untuk melakukan cyberbullying karena bisa menjadi anonim. Untuk itu, mari mengamankan akun Ask.fm dengan men-settingnya supaya tidak ada akun anonim yang mengajukan pertanyaan. 

Sebenarnya, pelaku cyberbullying tidak memiliki keberanian untuk menghina dengan bertatap muka karena hanya berani melakukannya lewat media sosial. 

Tips untuk korban cyberbullying :

1. Pertama-tama, capture-lah pesan atau status dari pelaku sebagai bukti.
2. Laporkan kepada orangtua maupun orang dewasa yang bisa menanganinya.
3. Kalau perlu, kamu bisa melaporkannya kepada yayasan yang bergerak di bidang bullying atau polisi. 

Pembaca ABHNTH, yuk, lawan cyberbullying untuk kedamaian!

[Resensi Buku] KaWanku Celebrate Your Weirdness

Judul Buku : KaWanku, Celebrate Your Weirdness
Penulis       : Tim Redaksi KaWanku
Penerbit      : Kepustakaan Populer Gramedia



Halo viewers! Lama nggak nge-blog karena selama seminggu ini aku US alias ujian sekolah. Dan sebentar lagi aku akan say bye to red and white uniform haha! Aku pengen menuliskan resensi buku yang sangat penting buat kalian. Karena apa? Buku ini cocok untuk orang yang pernah menjadi pelaku bullying, korban maupun saksi. Wajib dibaca nih!

Awalnya, aku tahu buku ini ketika sedang membaca majalah Girls. Kemudian, aku membaca salah satu halaman tentang buku ini. Aku langsung tertarik dan minta kepada mama untuk membelikannya. 

Ternyata isinya memang bagus. Dari halaman pertama, sudah dijelaskan apakah yang disebut bullying, apakah yang termasuk tindakan bullying, apakah jenis-jenis bullying (fisik, verbal, cyberbullying) dan tips untuk menghindari bullying, sampai tentang beberapa seleb ternama yang pernah berhubungan dengan kasus bullying.

Aku sempat iba dengan kakak-kakak yang menuliskan pengalamannya membully dan dibully. Ada yang dikarenakan ketertekanan. Sedih sekali di Indonesia ada budaya bullying yang seharusnya dihilangkan. Apalagi cyberbullying yang kadang terjadi tanpa kita rasakan. Nggak enak ya? Untuk itu, mulai sekarang, STOP BULLYING dan gunakan waktu untuk hal yang bermanfaat. Juga baca buku KaWanku Celebrate Your Weirdness ini yaaa?

Thanks for reading this short review :)

*Note : Setiap Rp. 2.500,- dari pembelian buku ini akan disumbangkan untuk yayasan SEJIWA yang bergerak di bidang anti-bullying. 

Have got interested to buy this book? Share to your friends... :)

*This post was copied from Afflatuzz`s personal blog www.afflatuzz.blogspot.com

Hey Readers!

Hey readers! Welcome to this blog. This blog`s made for giving bullying education. Especially for students, teens and Indonesian teens.  This blog writes about everything about bullying. Written by Afflatuzz (blogger) A.K.A Alifia Afflatus who`s getting interested to move in Anti-Bullying. The reason is, Alifia was a bullying victim (was not severe) and she always sees her friends on social media are doing cyberbullying.
She said "it`s not beneficial, it hurts and we should eliminate bullying" ...
This blog invites you to stop bullying. From now on, let`s move for ANTI BULLYING!